Barbara M Marhafer

1917 - 2008
LocationScotia, Ny
Age91 years
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth03/06/1917
Date of Death24/10/2008
Visitors654 since 28/10/2008
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Thank you ALL so very much for all the thoughts, prayers, and concerns. These all mean so much to me, beautiful souls that haven't even met me or my family but leave us messages to know you care, God Bless All the Angels that make this time easier for me and my loves ones.



My Grammy Barbara was my world, my pillar of strength, the one who believed in me when no one else could. Some one with a heart much larger than even the world could hold, never forgot a birthday, holiday, always made me feel like I belonged in the family even when those around me felt differently. You will NEVER be forgotten and held close to my heart until one day we will be able to speak face to face and you could see all the beauty around you as God has given that gift back sweetheart, until then I couldn't have asked for a more wonderful grandparent xoxoxo I miss you p.s. I'm sorry I forgot to put the card and pictures in the casket this morning but I believe you don't need them now :) love you so very much
Love, Annie (Ann Marie)

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Just a nice little note of Peace Angel's xxxx
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Let me go back from the traveled road
Away from crowds pushing,
To a quiet hill where the woods are still,
Serene 'neath a clean, blue sky.
...................................................................

Ryan S

May 9, 2011

I often think of you...

Sometimes when i walk to the shops

I see something that reminds me of you and of memories that had once been

Sometimes i think of you in my room

While day dreaming about times that we used to share

Sometimes i will remember something you used to do

While i cook my dinner or put on my shoes

You see Angel your not forgotten

Far from it infact

Your memory is left intact

Why? well, because i keep you Alive

In my own way i keep you with me

The life lessons learnt with you serve me down the road

The funny things you did still make me laugh

The Love you gave me lives on

So know i think of you,

Maby not every day but in my heart always.

X Never Forgotten GTS Angels and all Angels around the world X

Made by Ryan S. 5/5/2011

Ryan S

May 5, 2011

I often think of you...

Sometimes when i walk to the shops

I see something that reminds me of you and of memories that had once been

Sometimes i think of you in my room

While day dreaming about times that we used to share

Sometimes i will remember something you used to do

While i cook my dinner or put on my shoes

You see Angel your not forgotten

Far from it infact

Your memory is left intact

Why? well, because i keep you Alive

In my own way i keep you with me

The life lessons learnt with you serve me down the road

The funny things you did still make me laugh

The Love you gave me lives on

So know i think of you,

Maby not every day but in my heart always.

X Never Forgotten GTS Angels and all Angels around the world X

Made by Ryan S. 5/5/2011

Ryan S

May 5, 2011

My Heaven Home

I couldent stop smiling as you embraced me,
Everything was as it was meant to be,
So we stepped together to the Golden Gates,
Away from people on the clouds' being reunited,
Then as we said our names, a man told us,
Now your entering Heaven you cant forget your house,
It can be anything you have ever wanted or dreamed of,
It was amazing to say the least, You and me in the house of our dreams,
So anything, a bowling green in the back garden i said,
Yes you smiled and dont forget the green house and conservatory!
I said and a number or large trees, Then we looked at one another,
A zoo for all animals and an avirey!
Before we knew it, there it was, our dream house,
Large lands of garden, old and quirky, everything you could want,
Because in Heaven, Money is but a thing, it has no meaning,
No, in Heaven the best hearts & love filled lives,
Get more than gold can ever buy,
So this is our new start,
With our family living down the road,
Friends living nearby,
Now lets settle and go out and celebrate!
Heaven is not just another place unlike our own,
Its everyones' reward for the love they gave to so many,
When they were in their old home.

* For you Grandad Percey & Nanny Rose, hope you are getting all you deserve and although you would say you dont deserve it and others need it more i hope you take the time to do something just for you, as you did so much for everyone elce when you were living. Also if you ever need more love then just take some from my heart there's so much for both of you*

By Ryan S. Age 16. 10.2.2011

Ryan S

February 10, 2011

X X X X

Beautifull hearts have beautifull souls,
Kind people have loving ways,
Smile and laughter will let sunlight into your life,
Faith will help you during hard times,
Friendlyness will make the days fufilled,
A positive mind will gain all and never lose,
Why did God give us these gifts and positive sayings,
To act as a weapon,
When fate trys to get us to leave the path of easy travelling,
Into the blind and darkening forest,
So dont let fate trick you with its cold icy hand,
Just keep these sayings and life will slap fates hand.

By Ryan S, Age 16. 10/2/2011

Ryan S

February 10, 2011

Sleep Well Angel xxxx

Its time now Angel, time to fly away,
Time to rest your wings,
On that cloud of Pearl white & grey,
Its time to go,
Just give me a kiss and be on your way,
Its time to rest on that cloud now Angel,
You have had enough these last few days,
But dont worry as you go on your way,
I will be there with you again some day.

For Uncle Fred.

By Ryan S. Age 16. 8th of Febuary 2011.

Ryan S

February 8, 2011

~Heavens Ballroom~

Heavens Ballroom


When i look out of my window at night

I see stars shining bright

Then it comes alive

A huge ballroom

Filled with people as far as you can see

Yet no one is crowded

It fits everyone, to a tea

People are young and free

Smiling faces and beautifull dresses

Everyone so happy.

Then singers from times that have passed

Begin to sing and it all starts

The band plays, the people dance

Everyone laughs and laughs

People dance with one another

Some sit and watch each other

Its all so happy and so alive

People dance all night

Then i see you standing there

With lovely skin and lovely hair

Then we dance time away

In Heavens ballroom night and day

Then as i come back into normality

A tear rolls down my cheek

I see the stars twinkling at me

But i know what those stars are

Their the bright lights shining out of hevans ballroom

Because all the electricity that happens there

Is to amazing not to be seen back here.

Copyright Ryan Selwyn. Age 16. 25th of January 2011.

"Dedicated to my Nan and Grandad who loved to dance"

Ryan S

February 5, 2011

xxxx Your Silent Angel xxxx

Have you ever felt a chill

Run up and down you

As if someone where in the room

Have you ever had a bad day

That finishes

With an unexpected smile

Has something that seemed hopeless

Suddenly gone your way

Well there is a reason.

That i am telling you today

I am YOUR silent Angel

The one you love and miss so much

I come down from Hevan

Most days and nights

Just to check on you and make sure your feeling all right

Then if all is well i go back again

But if ever i see you sad with a tear rolling down your face

Then stop that! and look for the sighns, i leave you

I leave them all over the place

Mabey a feeling of me in the room will come to you

Mabey i will send the sun out to take away your blues

Please watch for my sighns they prove i am alive

And even though i can no longer speak to you

I am always with you

So remember this and hear my prayer

I am your silent Angel

Who loves you so very much and

Helps you when times are filled with dispare

Just as i did when i was with you down there.

* Dedicated to the Best Aunty we could ever have wanted Aunt Dig*

Copyright.
Ryan S.
Age 16.
28/1/2011

Ryan S

February 5, 2011

Waking Angel

The eyes softly open,

As a beeze smooths the face,

At first golden light is seen,

But once the eyes have awoken,

After a long and restful sleep,

Its seen to be,

Shimmers of sunlight beaming through a holly tree,

They dance and flicker through the leaves,

Then the Angel steps out from under the tree,

To see, a large blue sky, with clouds of dazzeling white

and below grass, warmed by sunlight

Then all around flowers bloom and fruit ripens

And trees sway with a calm breeze

Then a pathway appears

Going down between

Two loveheart shaped trees

The Angel follows and with each footstep

A new fragrance from a flower just bloomed sents the air

and shade from the trees takes away all cares

Until the Angel has walked down the pathway

Leaving this place.

Yet what the Angel did not know

Is that they had just left Heavens Garden

With a pathway to heavens palace

Yet if you ever see it

Just remember this

Its a wonderland of luscious fruits and flowers in bloom

But you have to be quiet when you go there

Because under the warm sun & the moon and stars that calm

Angels slumber there,

At all hours, dreaming away their cares.

~Dedicated to Nanny Maria~ An Amazing Lady~

By Ryan S. Aged 16. 3/2/2011.

Ryan S

February 5, 2011

DO YOU FEEL THE NEED TO TALK XXX

Do you ever sit in an empty room
do you appreciate an open bloom
do you smell it's sweet perfume

Do you feel the need to 'talk out loud'
but theres no one there to hear
do you hear a voice call out your name
so close up to your ear

Have you ever felt a sudden chill pas by
and the hair on your neck stands up
have you gone to pour a cup of tea
but someone's moved your cup

Do you believe in angels
do they make you smile
have you felt one on each shoulder
as you walk that long wiery mile

Do you know that all these things
are messages to you
do you believe that they exist
i'll tell you.....YES THEY DO

with love theresa xxx

Theresa Waters

February 11, 2010
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